Marriage Solutions, Immediate Advice - Marriage Solutions

It is our interest to share with you some of the advice and solutions to day-to-day domestic problems that arises between spouses.

From our experience we have seen that spouses are in need of immediate help and this is rising rapidly.  Sometimes the situation is not pleasant and it intensifies in a very short period. We have therefore listed for both spouses a number of immediate solutions that they can refer to.

We stress that they ponder upon these points and ask themselves if it is worth while going contrary to these points.

·        Do not make decisions that affect both of you on your own.

·        Do not rush; take your time.

·        Keep all doors wide open for communication.

·        Be truthful with your partner and yourself (i.e. admit if you are also wrong).

·        Smile.

·        Move away from heated arguments; don’t wait, be the first to do it.

·        Say something good, otherwise keep silent.

·        Overlook the day-to-day trivial things (yes both of you).

·        Assess yourself at the end of each day (your behaviour towards your partner).

·        Make an introspection of yourself.

·        Do not talk about the past mistakes of your partner.

·        Do not indulge yourself upon the things that your partner despises.

·        Apologise quickly if you make a mistake.

·        If you get angry sit down if this does not work lie down.

·        Refer the long term unresolved problems to a marriage counsellor.

These are some immediate points that will help couples in the long run and especially in the short run. Problems arise and sometimes it is difficult to get hold of an arbitrator.  The above points should be taken seriously and be pondered upon.

Look at the positives of a relationship rather than digging deep into trivial issues and see how you can prosper in lieu of breaking down.

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