“Remember, a marital relationship is not restricted
to only a woman fulfilling the rights upon her; this, we see again, as the
cultural and traditional input that plays a big part in spoiling a marriage
when it is really about BOTH husband and wife striking a beautiful balance,
whereby we can actually see a constructive relationship. It is unfortunate though, that we lack in
understanding about this very important aspect of life.”
“Try to be content with whatever comes your way,
life in this world will comprise of a lot of challenges so be prepared to
overcome them.”
“A despotic husband causes his vulnerable wife to
think of him as being stubborn, thus problems are often unjustified, or even
worse stagnant and not ready to be just part of the past.”
“The atmosphere of a relationship (going downhill)
maybe saddening to hear, but the ‘tit for tat’ that goes on between them is so
childish.”
“Wife is life and life is wife, so until then, work
is life and life is work, the conclusion is these are two extremes, other
things are being forgotten.”
“Husband and wife are like two pieces of a jigsaw,
they're not the same but connect perfectly when they are put together.”
“Be careful what you say, when speaking to your
partner, try and think if what you are going to say could upset your spouse,
and remember your tone. Have you thought of that when speaking to your spouse?”
“It’s impossible to get a husband/wife who is
perfect in every way, and more so, the way you exactly want however..... It is
possible, highly that you enjoy and find the things you like in them, just
remember the two jigsaw pieces so connect at once and disconnect all the
disagreements, agree to disagree and move on to enjoy what you both like doing
together.”
“Improve your relationship, not by discouraging it,
but by re-enacting it”
“Don't forget 'self-assessment' each day is a key to
improving yourself”
“Be grateful for what you have and possess, for
others (whom you may not know of) are completely deprived”
"Keep some amount of space between you and your
partner, this will ensure that you reconnect with your rabb exclusively”
The messenger said “The one who believes in Allah
and the last day, say something good otherwise keep silent” (aw nahwu haaza)
"Sometimes people do not see your good actions,
it just passes their head, so why bother trying to show them.
“You carry on doing the good 'AMAL' for the sake of
Allah, automatically Allah will soon notify them of your good that you show
them through your actions”
“Marriage is a serious relationship, you can't
expect everything to be the way you want it to be, so be fair...”
“Be prepared & try2always handle situations how
Allah would want you2, through the example of the messenger, in accordance2the
time & place”
“A mu'min is a mirror for a mu'min, & a mu'min
is a brother of a mu'min, who prevents him/her from danger& protects
him/her in their absence” (Hadith)
“Understand what needs concentration and
consideration before making brave decisions, by which others are affected”
“At times you have to learn how to cope alone, but
remember Allah is besides you to take to along”
“Think b4 you talk and rehearse b4 you make a move
(it could help)”
“You want a perfect wife/husband but you have to
remind yourself, the same is expected from you”
“A HUSBAND cannot do whatever he wants and a WIFE
cannot do whatever she wants. There has to be some sort of mutual
understanding, consideration and a middle line”
“Forbidden relationships should not even start in
the first place, get married, yes if you know of someone, don't be saying
you’re not ready (even when you have the means)”
Islamic
Marriage Solutions
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